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Conscious Communication and Parenting

  • By Ishika Aswani
  • May 28, 2017
  • 2 min read

"Parenting is a pleasure and a privilege."

As a parent, we get to experience our world again through the innocent and clear eyes of our child.

Every age stage that our children go through, reminds us of that specific age stage when we went through it ourselves.

In this alone lies our opportunity to bring Healing, Understanding, Acceptance and Love to the places inside us that hurt and have felt lost.

"Our children learn from our example and not from what we tell them."

In the last 15 years of being a parent, I notice how I always arrive at opportunities galore to cultivate and practice my leadership skills of Authenticity, Assertiveness, Mindfulness and Compassion.

How else does one move through the trials and tribulations that most of us experience through giving birth and starting a family, then moving though the infant age, the play age, school age, teenage, young adulthood, adulthood and so on with our children.

"We can never stop being a parent, although as most of us have experienced, our children become more self reliant and independent soon."

Yet we worry for their choices and experiences, in an attempt to protect them such that they be successful individuals and gain the most from life.

Conscious Communication and Parenting is a beautiful and powerful focus through our sessions together, that assists you as parents in becoming more aware of the immense opportunities of Growth, Development, Healing and Evolution available to you and your children through your relationship with each other.

Encountering and side-stepping the common parent-traps of fear, guilt, shame and blame, the power struggles, patterns of control and emotional manipulation are all part of this powerful journey of Conscious Parenting.

"We can be of most service to our children when we inspire them to make Self-honoring choices that are in their Highest Good, for the rest of their lives."

We live in a Universe of Cause and Effect. It's Science not fate or 'bad' karma.

Instead of focusing all our awareness on critical thinking, teaching our children through practicing ourselves, the correlation between the choices we make and the consequences these choices bring forward in our life experience is one of the most powerful lessons in Self-Responsibility, Self-Acceptance, Self-Commitment and in cultivating deep Integrity.

"No one ever learnt through another's experiences. We can only ever know through our own experience."

It is in developing our Emotional (EQ) and Relationship quotient (RQ) that we can truly live joyful, authentic and successful lives.

It's time we taught our children the same.

Here is a powerful poem that moves my heart every time I read it: Our Children

If you would like to experience this powerful work through your relationship as a parent and really experience parenting as a privilege and a pleasure please contact me for details on sessions.

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